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Why Rules Fail: The Montessori Approach to Raising Disciplined Children

with Nicole Coman and William “Biff” Maier

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Are traditional discipline methods setting children up for failure? In this episode, hosts Nicole Coman and Biff Maier challenge the outdated, top-down approach to rules and discipline, revealing how Montessori principles cultivate true self-regulation, accountability, and independence—without authoritarian control.

They explore:

  • Why rules often backfire and what works instead
  • The power of natural consequences over punishments
  • How to build a culture of respect where kids take responsibility
  • Montessori’s radical approach to discipline that prepares children for life
  • Practical strategies for parents and teachers to shift from control to collaboration

If you’ve ever wondered why traditional discipline methods feel frustrating and ineffective, this episode will change the way you think about rules forever.

Show is sponsored by:

American Montessori Society

http://www.amshq.org

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Nicole Coman
Nicole Coman (she/her) is one of the co-hosts of the Educating the Human Potential podcast, produced by AMS. As a licensed educational psychologist, Nicole brings a wealth of expertise in school psychology and child development. Her experience with educational practices, Montessori education, and child development allows for an ever-captivating and insightful dialogue.
William “Biff” Maier
Biff Maier (he/him) is one of the co-hosts of the Educating the Human Potential podcast, produced by AMS. Biff is an AMS Living Legacy, a former Montessori head of school, and a former teacher education program director. These deep-rooted connections with Montessori education, his passion for Montessori principles, and his legacy within AMS make him the perfect addition to our podcast team.